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"You have to put in the time, effort and energy—even when you feel like throwing in the towel or avoiding it altogether," says Steinberg.
So while you should keep those sky-high goals close to your heart, you also have to hold yourself accountable for not missing out on something else you really want—like marriage and kids.
); actually putting yourself out there at events and activities where you're likely to meet people; tapping into your network of friends for set-ups; and so on.
"It's about taking action, in more ways than one," she says.
Actively position yourself to meet like-minded guys who are likely looking for legit, long-term relationships.
Steinberg says this might mean: getting online or taking online dating more seriously ( read those profiles!