Dating the dent site
Take the first step towards combatting League Theory and look in the mirror. Remind yourself of that fact until you believe it as emphatically true.
But more than that, think about your talents, interests, passions, and values.
It didn't work out with that super hot guy because it wasn't meant to work out.
And I don't mean that in some fate-oriented, "true love will come one day," way.
When we're rejected by someone, we never say, "It must be because I have a really awesome future ahead of me and I'm a really motivated person." No.
No one can determine who is in a certain league, because leagues don't exist.
I used to say that guys were out of my league all the time.
I put myself down despite the other redeeming qualities I have.
He (or she) is too tall, too attractive, too smart, too funny, too ambitious or just too plain awesome to be interested in you, right? I've come to the realization that no one is truly "out of my league," and here's why.
Let's get this straight: this is no self-serving, pretentious piece proclaiming my alluring charm and dashing good looks. I still struggle with my body image issues and self-esteem just like many others do.